I Demanded My Man Pay Up... Now He's Calling Me 'Money-Hungry'! 💔

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Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a doozy of a story for you today. Meet our leading lady, a 33-year-old hard-working mom who's been supporting her disabled vet boyfriend for the past 3 years. 💪 Things were going swimmingly until... plot twist! 😱 His 3 teenage daughters suddenly moved in, and our heroine found herself drowning in expenses. 💸 Will her boyfriend step up and pay his fair share? 🤔 Or will she be left high and dry, wondering if she's being taken for a ride? 🎢 Let's dive in and find out! 🏊‍♀️

💑 Love Story Gone Wrong? 😢

mallyd88 | mallyd88

💰 Disabled Vet BF Contributes Little 🤔

mallyd88 | mallyd88

👧👧👧 BF's 3 Girls Move In... Unexpectedly! 😲

mallyd88 | mallyd88

🚨 Shocking Discovery: Girls' Awful Living Conditions 😱

mallyd88 | mallyd88

👨‍⚖️ Courts Decide: Girls Must Live with Dad (and Me!) 🏠

mallyd88 | mallyd88

💸 Expenses Skyrocket, I'm Falling Behind! 😰

mallyd88 | mallyd88

💔 BF Gets Angry When Asked to Pay Fair Share 😠

mallyd88 | mallyd88

🤨 BF Offers $750/Month... Is It Enough? 🤔

mallyd88 | mallyd88

😕 "It's For Our Family"... But Am I Being Used? 🙍‍♀️

mallyd88 | mallyd88

❤️ I Love Them, But... 💭

mallyd88 | mallyd88

🎉 Update: BF Agrees to Pay $1200/Month! 💰

mallyd88 | mallyd88

🗣️ Open Communication is Key 🔑

mallyd88 | mallyd88

💪 Sacrifices Made, But Not at the Cost of My Future 🔮

mallyd88 | mallyd88

💬 Tough Talks, But Progress Made 🌱

mallyd88 | mallyd88

🚨 Girlfriend's Finances Stretched to the Limit! 💸😰

Well, well, well... looks like our leading lady is in quite the pickle! 🥒 She's been footing the bill for her boyfriend and his 3 daughters for months now, and it's starting to take a toll on her bank account. 💸😓 When she finally mustered up the courage to ask for a fair contribution, her boyfriend got all huffy and puffy, accusing her of being money-hungry! 😤 The nerve! 😠 But wait, there's more! Turns out, the boyfriend's ex-wife pulled a similar stunt on her new beau, and now he's suing her for taking advantage! 🤯 Talk about a red flag parade! 🚩🚩🚩 Let's see what the internet has to say about this messy situation... 👀🍿

Leave the train wreck and show your kids healthy relationships 👍

Accomplished_Row6466 | Accomplished_Row6466

Fair point, he should support his kids. #NTA 👍

Sass-A-syd | Sass-A-syd

Red flags in early stages, consider leaving for your sanity 😔

Icy_Recording6314 | Icy_Recording6314

Fair solution to split bills based on proportional income. NTA.

Beowulf33232 | Beowulf33232

Veteran's undisclosed income may affect child support. NTA.

Irisorchid07 | Irisorchid07

Confusion over court's decision leading to homelessness 😕

LEANiscrack | LEANiscrack

NTA! Wanting help covering expenses for his children is not money-hungry 👏

nattatalie | nattatalie

Demanding financial fairness led to a bad living situation. 🤑

2bjTexas | 2bjTexas

Talking about money can be tough, but communication is key! NTA

FlyingSpaghettiFell | FlyingSpaghettiFell

Dump the old fool. He's taking advantage of you. 💔

shida206 | shida206

Stop being an ATM for your BF and his kids. 💸

voluntold9276 | voluntold9276

Despite pointing out negatives, OP is NTA but should reconsider.

Unlikely_Cockroach26 | Unlikely_Cockroach26

NTA, but being taken advantage of as Sugar Momma 💸

bkupisch | bkupisch

Supportive comment urges OP to stand up for herself and leave.

OrdinaryNose | OrdinaryNose

Think twice before financially supporting your partner's family. 🤔

luckydidi18 | luckydidi18

Get a lawyer, you might not have legal power here 🙏

hootiebean | hootiebean

Is her boyfriend a freeloader or is she too demanding? 🤔

StilltheoneNY | StilltheoneNY

NTA, kick him and his kids out! 🚪 Poor kids 😔

ObviousArt7432 | ObviousArt7432

Partner not pulling his weight in expenses? NTA, set boundaries 👍

Blonde2468 | Blonde2468

Stand up for yourself! Don't let him call you money-hungry 💪

baneline2 | baneline2

Dump him and his daughters - NTA. 👍

coloradogrown85 | coloradogrown85

Single mom takes charge and kicks out dead beat dad! 💪🏻

Aspen_Pass | Aspen_Pass

Insightful comment from a disabled veteran, offering advice and support 🙏

Gomaith23 | Gomaith23

Female breadwinner demands fairness, gets called 'money-hungry'. NTA.

Firethorn101 | Firethorn101

Financially taken advantage of, tough choices ahead. 💸

Momo222811 | Momo222811

Don't be desperate, kick that user to the curb! 🙌

CandyShop_xo | CandyShop_xo

Demanding fair contribution from partner for joint expenses. #NTA 👏

The_Amazing_Username | The_Amazing_Username

Stand your ground, girl! 👏

Reasonable-Ganache-1 | Reasonable-Ganache-1

NTA, OP deserves fair contribution from partner for household bills. 💰

AlpacaPicnic23 | AlpacaPicnic23

Demanding money from partner and ex is justified. 💵

beenthere7613 | beenthere7613

Splitting child support between kids and bills is reasonable. 🤷‍♀️

Own_Can_3495 | Own_Can_3495

Demanding child support is reasonable, not money-hungry. 👍

Why_r_people_ | Why_r_people_

Joint decisions needed, consider splitting up. Not the a**hole 👏

Emergency-Aardvark-6 | Emergency-Aardvark-6

Boyfriend accused of financial abuse in child support dispute. NTA.

KimmyStand | KimmyStand

Supporting him for 3 years? NTA and time to evaluate love 💔

Sensitive_Coconut339 | Sensitive_Coconut339

Partner taking advantage by grabbing your money for HIS kids. NTA 👏

WelshWickedWitch | WelshWickedWitch

Don't be a victim of love scams. 👍

dontbutdopls | dontbutdopls

Is she being scammed? Monthly costs up by $1700!

fantastkdave1 | fantastkdave1

Don't let anyone call you 'money-hungry' for demanding fairness.

SprSnkySnickerdoodle | SprSnkySnickerdoodle

Don't let him mooch off you! Seek legal help ASAP! 💪

LuxuryMountainGoat | LuxuryMountainGoat

Don't be a free hotel! NTA for demanding contribution 👏

ViolaVetch75 | ViolaVetch75

Dump him! He's using you for money and disrespecting you.

Puzzleheaded_Essay22 | Puzzleheaded_Essay22

Woman demands equal child support, gets called 'money-hungry'. NTA.

SportySue60 | SportySue60

Stand your ground! You're not responsible for their expenses 💪

OperationBright2450 | OperationBright2450

Standing up for herself and her finances. 💪

SatelliteBeach123 | SatelliteBeach123

Hold firm and don't let him take advantage of you 💪

Beautypaste | Beautypaste

Protect your worth! Don't let anyone use you for money 💵

SnooWords4839 | SnooWords4839

Taking advantage of a partner? 💰 NTA demands justice.

Soft-Mousse-1000 | Soft-Mousse-1000

Partner paying $500/mo for 4 people treated like a fool 👮🏼🤯

FatboyChester | FatboyChester

Financially struggling due to extra expenses, NTA for asking help 💰

Flat_Contribution707 | Flat_Contribution707

Fair to demand expenses for extra people. Cut salon visits! 👍

boomboombalatty | boomboombalatty

Ex's custody payment goes to boyfriend on disability, is it fair? 🤔

Whocaresalot | Whocaresalot

NTA calls out man for shirking responsibility. 💪

Miserable_Panda6979 | Miserable_Panda6979

NTA. The audacity of him to call you money-hungry. 🙄

asabovesobelow4 | asabovesobelow4

Demanding more money from your boyfriend: NTA or Money-Hungry? 🤔

meifahs_musungs | meifahs_musungs

Get the facts on dependent benefits for child support. 💰

Mandajolene123 | Mandajolene123

Age gap, disability, financial issues - NTA better off leaving him. 👋

Wonderful_Ad968 | Wonderful_Ad968

Partner not contributing to shared costs after kids move in. NTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Money issues can strain relationships. Take a break and communicate 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Taking money from kids for man makes stomach churn 🤢

Kairenne | Kairenne

Making a budget is not wrong. Boyfriend's reaction is red flag 🚨 NTA

Renbarre | Renbarre

Don't let him manipulate you. You deserve better. 🙏

tcrhs | tcrhs

Don't let him guilt you into bankrolling them 💵

Responsible_Point_91 | Responsible_Point_91

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries. 💪

qnachowoman | qnachowoman

NTA. BF uses you and contributes nothing, give him 30 days. 👏

moew4974 | moew4974

Don't marry him! Gravy train might derail soon. NTA.

CantTakeTheIdiocy | CantTakeTheIdiocy

NTA, he's profiting off you and neglecting his own children. 💰

littlefiddle05 | littlefiddle05

Demanding child support for his kids is reasonable. NTA. 👍

ebonylexus | ebonylexus

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