Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a doozy of a story for you today. Meet our leading lady, a 33-year-old hard-working mom who's been supporting her disabled vet boyfriend for the past 3 years. 💪 Things were going swimmingly until... plot twist! 😱 His 3 teenage daughters suddenly moved in, and our heroine found herself drowning in expenses. 💸 Will her boyfriend step up and pay his fair share? 🤔 Or will she be left high and dry, wondering if she's being taken for a ride? 🎢 Let's dive in and find out! 🏊♀️
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💑 Love Story Gone Wrong? 😢
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💰 Disabled Vet BF Contributes Little 🤔
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👧👧👧 BF's 3 Girls Move In... Unexpectedly! 😲
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🚨 Shocking Discovery: Girls' Awful Living Conditions 😱
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👨⚖️ Courts Decide: Girls Must Live with Dad (and Me!) 🏠
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💸 Expenses Skyrocket, I'm Falling Behind! 😰
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💔 BF Gets Angry When Asked to Pay Fair Share 😠
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🤨 BF Offers $750/Month... Is It Enough? 🤔
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😕 "It's For Our Family"... But Am I Being Used? 🙍♀️
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❤️ I Love Them, But... 💭
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🎉 Update: BF Agrees to Pay $1200/Month! 💰
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🗣️ Open Communication is Key 🔑
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💪 Sacrifices Made, But Not at the Cost of My Future 🔮
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💬 Tough Talks, But Progress Made 🌱
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🚨 Girlfriend's Finances Stretched to the Limit! 💸😰
Well, well, well... looks like our leading lady is in quite the pickle! 🥒 She's been footing the bill for her boyfriend and his 3 daughters for months now, and it's starting to take a toll on her bank account. 💸😓 When she finally mustered up the courage to ask for a fair contribution, her boyfriend got all huffy and puffy, accusing her of being money-hungry! 😤 The nerve! 😠 But wait, there's more! Turns out, the boyfriend's ex-wife pulled a similar stunt on her new beau, and now he's suing her for taking advantage! 🤯 Talk about a red flag parade! 🚩🚩🚩 Let's see what the internet has to say about this messy situation... 👀🍿
Leave the train wreck and show your kids healthy relationships 👍
Accomplished_Row6466 | Accomplished_Row6466
Fair point, he should support his kids. #NTA 👍
Sass-A-syd | Sass-A-syd
Red flags in early stages, consider leaving for your sanity 😔
Icy_Recording6314 | Icy_Recording6314
Fair solution to split bills based on proportional income. NTA.
Beowulf33232 | Beowulf33232
Veteran's undisclosed income may affect child support. NTA.
Irisorchid07 | Irisorchid07
Confusion over court's decision leading to homelessness 😕
LEANiscrack | LEANiscrack
NTA! Wanting help covering expenses for his children is not money-hungry 👏
nattatalie | nattatalie
Demanding financial fairness led to a bad living situation. 🤑
2bjTexas | 2bjTexas
Talking about money can be tough, but communication is key! NTA
FlyingSpaghettiFell | FlyingSpaghettiFell
Dump the old fool. He's taking advantage of you. 💔
shida206 | shida206
Stop being an ATM for your BF and his kids. 💸
voluntold9276 | voluntold9276
Despite pointing out negatives, OP is NTA but should reconsider.
Unlikely_Cockroach26 | Unlikely_Cockroach26
NTA, but being taken advantage of as Sugar Momma 💸
bkupisch | bkupisch
Supportive comment urges OP to stand up for herself and leave.
OrdinaryNose | OrdinaryNose
Think twice before financially supporting your partner's family. 🤔
luckydidi18 | luckydidi18
Get a lawyer, you might not have legal power here 🙏
hootiebean | hootiebean
Is her boyfriend a freeloader or is she too demanding? 🤔
StilltheoneNY | StilltheoneNY
NTA, kick him and his kids out! 🚪 Poor kids 😔
ObviousArt7432 | ObviousArt7432
Partner not pulling his weight in expenses? NTA, set boundaries 👍
Blonde2468 | Blonde2468
Stand up for yourself! Don't let him call you money-hungry 💪
baneline2 | baneline2
Dump him and his daughters - NTA. 👍
coloradogrown85 | coloradogrown85
Single mom takes charge and kicks out dead beat dad! 💪🏻
Aspen_Pass | Aspen_Pass
Insightful comment from a disabled veteran, offering advice and support 🙏
Gomaith23 | Gomaith23
Female breadwinner demands fairness, gets called 'money-hungry'. NTA.
Firethorn101 | Firethorn101
Financially taken advantage of, tough choices ahead. 💸
Momo222811 | Momo222811
Don't be desperate, kick that user to the curb! 🙌
CandyShop_xo | CandyShop_xo
Demanding fair contribution from partner for joint expenses. #NTA 👏
The_Amazing_Username | The_Amazing_Username
Stand your ground, girl! 👏
Reasonable-Ganache-1 | Reasonable-Ganache-1
NTA, OP deserves fair contribution from partner for household bills. 💰
AlpacaPicnic23 | AlpacaPicnic23
Demanding money from partner and ex is justified. 💵
beenthere7613 | beenthere7613
Splitting child support between kids and bills is reasonable. 🤷♀️
Own_Can_3495 | Own_Can_3495
Demanding child support is reasonable, not money-hungry. 👍
Why_r_people_ | Why_r_people_
Joint decisions needed, consider splitting up. Not the a**hole 👏
Emergency-Aardvark-6 | Emergency-Aardvark-6
Boyfriend accused of financial abuse in child support dispute. NTA.
KimmyStand | KimmyStand
Supporting him for 3 years? NTA and time to evaluate love 💔
Sensitive_Coconut339 | Sensitive_Coconut339
Partner taking advantage by grabbing your money for HIS kids. NTA 👏
WelshWickedWitch | WelshWickedWitch
Don't be a victim of love scams. 👍
dontbutdopls | dontbutdopls
Is she being scammed? Monthly costs up by $1700!
fantastkdave1 | fantastkdave1
Don't let anyone call you 'money-hungry' for demanding fairness.
SprSnkySnickerdoodle | SprSnkySnickerdoodle
Don't let him mooch off you! Seek legal help ASAP! 💪
LuxuryMountainGoat | LuxuryMountainGoat
Don't be a free hotel! NTA for demanding contribution 👏
ViolaVetch75 | ViolaVetch75
Dump him! He's using you for money and disrespecting you.
Puzzleheaded_Essay22 | Puzzleheaded_Essay22
Woman demands equal child support, gets called 'money-hungry'. NTA.
SportySue60 | SportySue60
Stand your ground! You're not responsible for their expenses 💪
OperationBright2450 | OperationBright2450
Standing up for herself and her finances. 💪
SatelliteBeach123 | SatelliteBeach123
Hold firm and don't let him take advantage of you 💪
Beautypaste | Beautypaste
Protect your worth! Don't let anyone use you for money 💵
SnooWords4839 | SnooWords4839
Taking advantage of a partner? 💰 NTA demands justice.
Soft-Mousse-1000 | Soft-Mousse-1000
Partner paying $500/mo for 4 people treated like a fool 👮🏼🤯
FatboyChester | FatboyChester
Financially struggling due to extra expenses, NTA for asking help 💰
Flat_Contribution707 | Flat_Contribution707
Fair to demand expenses for extra people. Cut salon visits! 👍
boomboombalatty | boomboombalatty
Ex's custody payment goes to boyfriend on disability, is it fair? 🤔
Whocaresalot | Whocaresalot
NTA calls out man for shirking responsibility. 💪
Miserable_Panda6979 | Miserable_Panda6979
NTA. The audacity of him to call you money-hungry. 🙄
asabovesobelow4 | asabovesobelow4
Demanding more money from your boyfriend: NTA or Money-Hungry? 🤔
meifahs_musungs | meifahs_musungs
Get the facts on dependent benefits for child support. 💰
Mandajolene123 | Mandajolene123
Age gap, disability, financial issues - NTA better off leaving him. 👋
Wonderful_Ad968 | Wonderful_Ad968
Partner not contributing to shared costs after kids move in. NTA.
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Money issues can strain relationships. Take a break and communicate 👍
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Taking money from kids for man makes stomach churn 🤢
Kairenne | Kairenne
Making a budget is not wrong. Boyfriend's reaction is red flag 🚨 NTA
Renbarre | Renbarre
Don't let him manipulate you. You deserve better. 🙏
tcrhs | tcrhs
Don't let him guilt you into bankrolling them 💵
Responsible_Point_91 | Responsible_Point_91
Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries. 💪
qnachowoman | qnachowoman
NTA. BF uses you and contributes nothing, give him 30 days. 👏
moew4974 | moew4974
Don't marry him! Gravy train might derail soon. NTA.
CantTakeTheIdiocy | CantTakeTheIdiocy
NTA, he's profiting off you and neglecting his own children. 💰
littlefiddle05 | littlefiddle05
Demanding child support for his kids is reasonable. NTA. 👍
ebonylexus | ebonylexus