Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a juicy tale of couples retreat drama that's sure to get your blood boiling! 😠 Meet our 29-year-old heroine, a mom of two, who's been with her 30-year-old boyfriend for four years. 💑 When an exciting invitation to a couples retreat lands in their laps, she's thrilled! 🎉 But wait... there's a catch! 😱 Finding a babysitter proves to be mission impossible, and her boyfriend's family can't come to the rescue either. 😞 So, what happens when she wakes up to find him packing his bags at 5 AM? 😲 Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster ride and see how it all unfolds! 🎢
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🚨 Couples Retreat Drama Alert! 😱
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🏖️ Exciting Invitation: Couples Retreat! 💑
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🕰️ Countdown to Retreat Day! ⏳
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😞 Babysitter Hunt: Mission Impossible? 🔍
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🆘 Boyfriend's Family to the Rescue? 🤞
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🤔 No Sitter, No Retreat... Right? 🙅♀️
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😲 Surprise! Boyfriend's Packing at 5 AM! 🧳
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😠 Confrontation: Does He Even Want Me There? 🤬
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🙄 Boyfriend's Blunt Response: "If you wanted to go..." 😒
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📸 Rubbing Salt in the Wound: Suite Pics! 😭
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😒 Passive-Aggressive Text Exchange Begins! 📱
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🔥 Heated Texts: "You're being an a**hole!" 😡
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🤔 AITA for Getting Upset? 🙋♀️
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🔥 Couples Retreat Turns into Heated Text Battle! 📱😡
Our heroine is left reeling when her boyfriend decides to go on the couples retreat without her, despite her inability to find a babysitter for her kids. 😢 Tensions rise as he sends her pics of his lavish suite, complete with flower petals, champagne, and a heart-shaped bed. 😒 A passive-aggressive text exchange ensues, with accusations of being "clipped" and an "a**hole" flying back and forth. 😠 As the drama reaches a boiling point, our protagonist is left wondering: is she the a**hole for getting upset that he went without her? 🤔 The internet is about to weigh in on this emotional rollercoaster ride! 🎢 Get ready for some sizzling hot takes and jaw-dropping reactions! 🔥😲
Partner chose champagne & heart-shaped bed over family, commenter says NTA 😍
brimberly | brimberly
Selfish partner chooses luxury over family, commenter suggests leaving him. 🙌
LittleWinn | LittleWinn
OP expected too much, but partner could have communicated better 🙏
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Partner went on retreat for partners and didn't take you? 🚩
Cat_2025 | Cat_2025
Poor communication leads to family drama and heart-shaped beds. 🤦♂️
WanderingWedding | WanderingWedding
Respectful YTA comment with advice for both parties 💔
LeaguePillowFighter | LeaguePillowFighter
Partner chooses romance over family, commenter calls out behavior.
alongstrangesomethin | alongstrangesomethin
User calls out OP for expecting too much from partner
RRiverRRising | RRiverRRising
No sitter, no problem? ESH but poor reaction to guilt 😭
shesavillain | shesavillain
Partner chooses luxury over family, comment calls out entitlement 🤔
niteray | niteray
Is he avoiding asking his family for favors? 🤔
wildkat4 | wildkat4
Mom wants grandma to watch kids for four days, calls her deadbeat.
BaoziCheeks | BaoziCheeks
Perception vs reality: When does dating become a family affair?
dane_crane | dane_crane
Responsibility for finding a sitter falls on you, YTA.
ThrowRAsadfriend5 | ThrowRAsadfriend5
User suggests everyone sucks as both sides lack communication 🙄
sumoraiden | sumoraiden
Arranges childcare for kids that aren't his, but ESH for entitlement.
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Romantic retreats are for pairs, not a third wheel. NTA.
EmmalouEsq | EmmalouEsq
Partner chooses romantic retreat over family, commenter offers sympathy and self-care tips.
HeartpineFloors | HeartpineFloors
OP's husband prioritizes romance over family, but ESH.
teskeboje | teskeboje
Pre-paid trip, NAH/YTA. He wanted a friend to come. 🤷♀️
Soundless_Pr | Soundless_Pr
Savage response to solo couples' retreat. 🤣
juniperberry52 | juniperberry52
Entitled OP receives YTA judgment, commenter suggests boyfriend break up
ThrowRAsadfriend5 | ThrowRAsadfriend5
Partner shirking parental responsibilities, NTA for being upset 😠
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Partner chooses romance over family, but who's the real AH?
PrivateNoLlamaDrama | PrivateNoLlamaDrama
Don't be selfish, let him enjoy the trip without you. YTA 🙄
themediumchunk | themediumchunk
Defending a man's weekend away from family sparks debate 🤔
dogmom12589 | dogmom12589
Partner's solo retreat: red flag for valuing 'alone time'.
mdhewitt1978 | mdhewitt1978
When your partner doesn't consider your kids as family 🤷♀️
flxwrx | flxwrx
Partner chooses champagne & heart-shaped beds over family, sends passive-aggressive photos. NTA
laurakershaw | laurakershaw
Looking for a partner who wants to go on couples weekend 😍
JeepNaked | JeepNaked
Speak up and clarify assumptions to avoid heartache later 👍
ProudBoomer | ProudBoomer
Don't breakup at the drop of a hat, YTA but not AH 💔
dammahomelihpodep | dammahomelihpodep
Parenting responsibility debated with no a**hole behavior reported 👍
w0mba7 | w0mba7
User calls out OP for prioritizing luxury over family 👎
noleano | noleano
Partner refuses to help find sitter for couples' retreat. Possible affair? 😬
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Surprise vacation or rubbing it in? NTA speaks out.
Poplett | Poplett
Going on a solo trip after paying for it: YTA or NAH?
towerofcheeeeza | towerofcheeeeza
Controversial take - commenter thinks OP is the a-hole
GreekACA25 | GreekACA25
ESH. He's being petty and you both need to communicate better.
requiemforpotential | requiemforpotential
Possible cheating and disregard for family. He's moving on.
HambdenRose | HambdenRose
Husband prioritizes vacation over family, faces possible loneliness. 😔
canadiangirl007 | canadiangirl007
User questions OP's story and suggests there's more to it. 🤔
nateatenate | nateatenate
A crucial question about refundable retreat and prior knowledge.
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User cancels spa retreat & expects boyfriend to cancel too. YTA.
VROF | VROF
ESH. Lack of communication and planning; potential deeper issues. 💬
cerskor | cerskor
Taking responsibility for your partner's children - a moral obligation? 🤔
Viener-Schnitzel | Viener-Schnitzel
Partner's resentment towards kids, not cheating, concerning comment 🤷♀️
dwinnnnn | dwinnnnn
NTA commenter relates to deadbeat MIL and offers judgment.
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Choosing romance over family? YTA, but couple goals 💖
chihuahuaDeChapinha | chihuahuaDeChapinha
Is he purposely trying to make you break up? 🤷♀️
ninaa1 | ninaa1
Curious about payment & pattern in this relationship. 🤔
san_souci | san_souci
Debate over childcare responsibilities, both sides at fault. 🤷🏻♀️
jessieo387 | jessieo387
Partner's family accepts kids, but clarification of his role needed. ESH.
Bahamut_Neo | Bahamut_Neo
Defending the guy's right to have time with friends 👏
losttraveler95 | losttraveler95
Questions to understand the context of the situation 🤔
redditlurker100 | redditlurker100
Partner's lack of effort and blame on kids shows checked-out behavior 🤷♀️
Arbiterofmorals | Arbiterofmorals
Parenting priorities questioned in family babysitting dispute 🙄
xTheatreTechie | xTheatreTechie
BF gives 1 week notice to find sitter for 4 days 😑
sweariemother | sweariemother
Communication is key. YTA for not communicating with boyfriend.
surprise_b1tch | surprise_b1tch
Partner's true colors revealed after 4 years, kids affected 😢
angsumnes | angsumnes
Engage in direct communication. 🗣️
HarbingerDread | HarbingerDread
Petty revenge or justified? YTA called out by ex-spouse. 😕
rockhoundinaround | rockhoundinaround
User claims OP is TA for expecting too much from partner.
brbrbrbr08 | brbrbrbr08
Suspicious story - OP's SO's sudden trip with friends raises questions 🤔
CrazyinLull | CrazyinLull
Partner chooses champagne and heart-shaped beds over family 😡
Urgash54 | Urgash54
Don't jump to conclusions, it's not always a red flag 🚩
koleethan | koleethan
Partner may be checking out of family life 🙅🏻
BooRoWo | BooRoWo
Coordination issues and odd behavior at couples' retreat, possible relationship troubles.
motie | motie
Miscommunication and selfishness led to champagne over family time. 🤔
succulent_baby | succulent_baby
Partner's choice over Valentine's Day plans sparks relationship issues. ESH.
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Plan ahead and be responsible with other people's time. YTA.
aoul1 | aoul1
Engaging in communication is key for any relationship. 👨👩👦💛
08PetitSkye09 | 08PetitSkye09
Reader calls for more information on suspiciously quick couples retreat
Mutiny37 | Mutiny37
