🥶 Brrrr! Imagine being invited to brunch at your boyfriend's parents' house, only to find yourself shivering on their deck in 45°F weather! 🙅♀️ Our poor protagonist has endured this chilly tradition for years, but last week, she finally reached her breaking point. 😤 Bundled up in layers, she still couldn't enjoy her meal as the food turned cold faster than you can say "pass the syrup!" 🍳❄️ When she politely asked to move inside, her request was met with silence... even from her own boyfriend! 😑 Desperate for warmth, she took matters into her own hands and finished her meal in the dining room. 🍽️🙌 But now, tension is in the air, and her boyfriend is calling her rude! 😬 Let's dive into this icy tale of family drama and find out if our shivering sweetheart is really the a-hole here! 👀
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🧣 Bundled Up, But Still Freezing My Buns Off! 🍑❄️
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🍳 Cold Food, Cold Hands, Cold Everything! 😖
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🤷♀️ "Should We Pack It In?" Nope, Dad's Not Budging! 😤
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🙊 Silence from the Peanut Gallery... Even My BF! 😑
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🍽️ Taking Matters Into My Own (Warm) Hands! 🙌
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😬 Tension in the Air... and Not a Word Spoken! 🤐
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🤔 Was I Wrong? Maybe... But Enough is Enough! 😤
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👩❤️👨 Trying to Be a Good GF and "Daughter-in-Law"... But at What Cost? 🥶
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🥶 Frozen Out by the In-Laws: Was I Wrong to Seek Warmth? 🍽️😬
Well, well, well... it seems our protagonist's attempt to escape the frigid outdoor brunch has left her in the cold with her boyfriend's family! 😬❄️ After years of enduring chilly meals on the deck, she finally mustered the courage to speak up and move inside to finish her meal in warmth. 🍽️🙌 But instead of understanding, she was met with icy silence and later, a heated confrontation with her boyfriend! 😤 Now, she's left wondering if her actions were truly rude or if her in-laws' insistence on alfresco dining in Arctic temperatures is the real issue here. 🤔 It's a classic case of family drama with a side of frostbite, and we're here for it! 🍿 Let's see what the internet has to say about this chilling tale! 👀
Guest freezes outside at 45F while rude parents eat in, NTA.
Hegel321 | Hegel321
Dad's insistence on eating outside leaves guests freezing and uncomfortable 😒
float05 | float05
NTA. Boyfriend needs to respect your comfort and safety 🙏
Turkeysocks | Turkeysocks
Red flag? BF needs to step up as host 🚩
Sevenspoons | Sevenspoons
Dump the bf with unreasonable parents for your happiness. 🙌
Weird-Pomegranate388 | Weird-Pomegranate388
Scottish upbringing vs. cold weather: NTA guest sets boundaries 🍀
HaggisDragon | HaggisDragon
What does this even mean? 😕
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NTA. BF's family is rude and you deserve better 👏
coloradogrown85 | coloradogrown85
Braving the cold, NTA went inside to eat alone 😊
These_Silver7543 | These_Silver7543
Guest is uncomfortable eating outside, boyfriend berates her for being rude. NTA.
QYB1990 | QYB1990
Break up with this strange guy, dine out on the story 🍔
No_Collar2826 | No_Collar2826
Winter is coming, stay warm and NTA 🧣❄️
ProfessionalCar6255 | ProfessionalCar6255
Polite response to weird parents insisting on eating outside. 🙏
Hello_Spaceboy | Hello_Spaceboy
Polite response to rude behavior. NTA for eating indoors. 😊
cawingcrowcaw | cawingcrowcaw
Assertive advice for standing up to controlling father-in-law. 🤨
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Malicious compliance to the rescue! 😎🤔
_____-----_____1 | _____-----_____1
Freezing outside? No thanks! NTA stands their ground.
rochan71 | rochan71
Struggling with the cold? This commenter can relate 😧
Skarvha | Skarvha
No need to suffer for the sake of others. 😊
No-Names-Left-Here | No-Names-Left-Here
British redditor can't handle 45 degrees, same here mate 😂
princessanonymoose12 | princessanonymoose12
Have some fun with it! 😂
geekgirlau | geekgirlau
Avoiding cold dinners: NTA suggests fake sneezing or skipping invites.
SparkleBait | SparkleBait
Eating outside in 45 degree weather? Food must've tasted gross 😷
TheEducationLady | TheEducationLady
BF's parents ruined dinner outside and relationship with OP.
clandahlina_redux | clandahlina_redux
Cold and polite OP vs. rude parents and BF 🤷🏻♂️
Ill-Conversation5210 | Ill-Conversation5210
Setting boundaries with controlling parents. NTA for refusing.
oldlady2013 | oldlady2013
Putting up with bs won't make you a good daughter-in-law 😡
Disastrous_Curve_ | Disastrous_Curve_
Guests shouldn't freeze to please their hosts. NTA.
Professional_Grab513 | Professional_Grab513
Don't be an a-hole, respect people's temperature preferences ❄️
Attirey | Attirey
Polite NTA commenter fed up with uncomfortable outdoor dining.
einsteinGO | einsteinGO
Defend your warmth, not your BF. NTA 😊
Oxfordcomma42 | Oxfordcomma42
Expecting everyone to be comfortable in 45 degrees is rude ❄️
tawnie6879 | tawnie6879
NTA, rude of them to give you silent treatment. Reconsider in-laws 😔
mistydayze | mistydayze
Eating outside at 45 degrees? No thanks, not hospitality 😒
Ann-von-Beaverhausen | Ann-von-Beaverhausen
Red flag alert! Address the power imbalance & controlling behavior 👀
Bluefoot44 | Bluefoot44
Take control of your health and don't let others dictate. 💪
AjnaKing | AjnaKing
Suggest gifting a patio heater to enjoy family time outside 🌱
TLGinger | TLGinger
Refusing to freeze outdoors for a meal. 😱
PipeInevitable9383 | PipeInevitable9383
Dad's in charge but doesn't know how to treat guests 😕
HowFunkyIsYourChiken | HowFunkyIsYourChiken
Victorian blizzard outfit not enough for unheated deck in 40s 🥶
pdeb22 | pdeb22
NTA's BF's dad is rude AF. Talk to BF about it 🤷🏼♀️
Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1
Don't be a cold-hearted a**hole, respect people's comfort level 🚫
spaceyjaycey | spaceyjaycey
Being a good host means keeping guests comfortable. 👍
notrightmeowthx | notrightmeowthx
Join the rebellion against outdoor dining with dad! #NTA
Hermiona1 | Hermiona1
Excluded from family meals due to FIL's germaphobia. 😠
daebaknae | daebaknae
Canadian commenter supports not eating outside in cold weather 🇨🇦❄️
Chanterellelovescats | Chanterellelovescats
BF problem? 🤔 NTA shouldn't suffer, parents need to understand.
TheVue221 | TheVue221
NTA freezing temps, relatable coffee break, and a Google search ☕❄️
dogriwn | dogriwn
Choosing comfort over cold: NTA, BF's family's insanity AH 😫
princessanonymoose12 | princessanonymoose12
Choosing to eat inside or outside should not be a problem 😊
cylemmulo | cylemmulo
Family insists on eating outside at 45 degrees - NTA!
Powerful_Ad_1239 | Powerful_Ad_1239
Standing up for oneself and defying parental norms. NTA 🙌
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Moving to a colder place? Talk to your bf and stand up for your needs! ❄️
No_Procedure_2870 | No_Procedure_2870
Defending hospitality with sass and sarcasm. 😏
cstarh408 | cstarh408
Single comment section, cold weather, and a sassy response.
AdventurousDoubt1115 | AdventurousDoubt1115
Being a considerate host means accommodating guests' comfort levels 👍
tldr012020 | tldr012020
Partner's family is abusive. Leave if he won't protect you. NTA
ooooooooooooolivia | ooooooooooooolivia
New Englander agrees dad is delusional for eating outside in cold 😱
reedspacer38 | reedspacer38
Guest called out for being mistreated by inconsiderate hosts. 👏
Ghic_Chic | Ghic_Chic
Standing up for your comfort 🙌 #NTA
Bnovel | Bnovel
Don't suffer outside for politeness. NTA 🙌
disposiblecamera | disposiblecamera
Different people handle temperatures differently. Don't be a snowflake. ❄️
295Phoenix | 295Phoenix
Boyfriend and father are the a**holes, see the red flag 🍊
mrcloseupman | mrcloseupman
BF's foolishness questioned in outdoor dining etiquette debate. 🤔
elliptical-wing | elliptical-wing
Don't freeze for the sake of 'tradition'. Stand your ground! 🙌
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A cold dinner party? No thanks! NTA for staying warm 😊
Karlette88 | Karlette88
NTA. Hosts should be considerate of guests. 45°F is cold. 😱
that_greenmind | that_greenmind
Guest gets cold shoulder from parents insistent on eating outside
Live-Pomegranate4840 | Live-Pomegranate4840
Setting temperature limits for outdoor dining. NTA confirmed.
TacosForDinnnnner | TacosForDinnnnner
