🤰💍 Buckle up, folks! We've got a doozy of a family drama on our hands. Meet our pregnant protagonist, juggling toddlers and triplets on the way, as she navigates the treacherous waters of in-law expectations and annual ski trip traditions. 🎿😬 Will her decision to skip the vacation this year lead to a full-blown family meltdown? 😱 Let's dive in and find out! 🍿
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Family Vacation Fiasco: Pregnant Mom Skips Trip, In-Laws Flip Out! 😱
Our expectant mom, 22 weeks pregnant with triplets and wrangling 3 toddlers, decides to sit out the annual family ski trip this year. Cue the in-laws' meltdown! MIL sobs, FIL guilt trips, and accusations fly about her "ruining" the family vacation. 😠 Hubby defends her, but the drama doesn't end there. When she declines an invite to a surprise party at 29 weeks pregnant, the floodgates open, and every perceived slight comes pouring out. Now, she's left wondering: is she the a-hole for choosing comfort and safety over pleasing the in-laws? 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this family feud!
Concerned commenter shows empathy for pregnant DIL's situation 🙏
TinyBlonde15 | TinyBlonde15
Husband not helping with kids on vacation? NTA, but... 🤰🎿
New-Link5725 | New-Link5725
In-laws neglecting pregnant DIL's needs on trips. NTA.
International-Bar215 | International-Bar215
NTA for refusing to join in on non-babyproofed vacay 🙅♀️
FunnyCharacter4437 | FunnyCharacter4437
Pregnant woman's MIL is extremely selfish and tone-deaf. NTA 🤰🏻💥👋🏼
Historical-Goal-3786 | Historical-Goal-3786
Reader calls out exaggerated story with playful accusation. 😂
the_show_must_go_onn | the_show_must_go_onn
NTA for not wanting to be stuck in a hotel room with kids 🙅♀️
CheerilyTerrified | CheerilyTerrified
In-laws' entitled behavior causes drama, NTA for skipping trip 🙅♀️
glimmerseeker | glimmerseeker
Putting triplets at risk for 'faaaaamily' is not okay 🙅♀️
Chocolatecandybar_ | Chocolatecandybar_
NTA for ditching in-laws' trip, but should OP stop having kids? 🤔
SpaceDeFoig | SpaceDeFoig
Setting boundaries important for pregnant woman's well-being. 🙌
That_Survey5021 | That_Survey5021
Grandma's exclusive vacation is not a family vacation. 👏
childproofbirdhouse | childproofbirdhouse
Mother's insistence ruins vacation, NTA for prioritizing pregnancy 🙅♀️
Advanced_Wolf7573 | Advanced_Wolf7573
MIL needs to back off and be more supportive. NTA 👍
WantToBelieveInMagic | WantToBelieveInMagic
NTA. In-laws should hire nannies if they want a holiday.
Inevitable-Slice-263 | Inevitable-Slice-263
Start new family traditions; in-laws forgot traveling with kids. NTA 👍
sleepingrozy | sleepingrozy
NTA for refusing to be the only babysitter on vacation 🙅♀️
mfruitfly | mfruitfly
Supportive comment from a friend, praising the DIL's decision. 👏
KarateKid72 | KarateKid72
Put your needs first. Manipulation through guilt is selfish ✌🏻
Midwestgirl456 | Midwestgirl456
Protect your mental health and prioritize your pregnancy. NTA 👏
Special-Parsnip9057 | Special-Parsnip9057
Assertive response to entitled MIL. Set boundaries and prioritize self-care. 💪🏻
Traditional_Air_9483 | Traditional_Air_9483
MIL's unreasonable expectations lead to NTA judgment. Good luck OP! 🙏🏻
knight_shade_realms | knight_shade_realms
Blame the doctor tactic for respecting boundaries 🙌
Hot_Razzmatazz316 | Hot_Razzmatazz316
Don't let family guilt trip you! 👍
Grand4Ever2345 | Grand4Ever2345
Pregnant woman with triplets skips trip, MIL is the AH 🤰🎿🙅♀️
PrincessBella1 | PrincessBella1
A mother of three left alone during vacations. 🙄
purplehippobitches | purplehippobitches
Pregnant DIL left alone, husband prioritizes vacation 🙅♀️🍷
West-Improvement2449 | West-Improvement2449
Uncle empathizes with pregnant DIL and congratulates her 🙏
Perfect-Conference20 | Perfect-Conference20
User supports pregnant DIL's decision to skip vacation with in-laws.
oompey | oompey
Empathetic comment supports pregnant DIL's need for boundaries 🙏
Necessary_Dark_6720 | Necessary_Dark_6720
A playful comment about a unique username and a funny fertility joke.
AdChemical1663 | AdChemical1663
NTA for not wanting to be a baby maker and nanny. 👏
Fabulous-Search6974 | Fabulous-Search6974
User suggests MIL needs a childcare venue for family vacation 😂
Esmer_Tina | Esmer_Tina
Sarcastic suggestion to solve DIL's in-law problem 😂
Aria1728 | Aria1728
User doubts the authenticity of the story 🤔
Electrical_Ad4362 | Electrical_Ad4362
Pregnant DIL skips in-laws' trip, defends choice. NTA 🙌
Sunshiny__Day | Sunshiny__Day
MIL values control over spending time with family. NTA.
swillshop | swillshop
Husband prioritizes in-laws over pregnant wife. Commenter disapproves 💯
RoyIbex | RoyIbex
Suggests in-laws visit their pregnant DIL instead. 👍
LogicalDifference529 | LogicalDifference529
Creative solution for in-law visit dilemma! 😊
MrsRetiree2Be | MrsRetiree2Be
Supportive comment applauds pregnant woman, criticizes MIL's behavior 👏
rocknrollpizzaparty | rocknrollpizzaparty
In-laws want pregnant DIL with triplets to endanger herself? NTA 🙅♀️
Embarrassed-Rise-473 | Embarrassed-Rise-473
User questions IVF and suggests husband should handle in-laws.
Old-Vegetable3330 | Old-Vegetable3330
MIL should watch the kids next time. NTA 👍
Free-Display-4988 | Free-Display-4988
Supportive commenter empathizes with poster's frustration and suggests ignoring in-laws.
Intrepid_Respond_543 | Intrepid_Respond_543
Don't be a martyr mom, NTA for refusing to go. 👏
unlovelyladybartleby | unlovelyladybartleby
Skipping in-laws' trip at 23 weeks pregnant - NTA 🙅♀️
bellapenne | bellapenne
Inclusive family vacations: Why pregnant DIL deserves a break 🤰🏻👨👩👧👦
chart1961 | chart1961
Husband should prioritize his family over in-laws. 👫👭👭
Firecrackershrimp2 | Firecrackershrimp2
Empathetic comment suggests taking care of pregnant DIL and her babies 🙏
Morgen019 | Morgen019
One comment suggests starting a new vacation tradition without in-laws 🙌
Live_Western_1389 | Live_Western_1389
NTA. MIL is being selfish. You do you 🙏❤️
mnth241 | mnth241
Is OP being taken advantage of by her in-laws? 🤔
Value_Wide | Value_Wide
Stand up to narcissistic in-laws and their toxic behavior. 💪
Sparkly_Unicorn_Hair | Sparkly_Unicorn_Hair
Growing families change, DIL not wrong for not wanting to go 🙏
Grouchy-Storm-6758 | Grouchy-Storm-6758
Prioritizing family time over in-laws' trip. Not the a**hole. 👏
Gigafive | Gigafive
Skipping in-laws' trip while pregnant - NTA confirmed 🙌
drj1485 | drj1485
In-laws use grandkids as vacation props - NTA for declining 🚫
elusivemoniker | elusivemoniker
MIL is being selfish, NTA. Send kids to MIL post-birth 😀
Annie354654 | Annie354654
Don't buy into MIL's drama. Focus on your family. NTA 👍
jupedya | jupedya
Supportive commenter applauds pregnant DIL for standing up to MIL 👏
Amazing_Teaching2733 | Amazing_Teaching2733
MIL wants to see grandkids on vacation, but they'd be in hotel room all day? NTA
Shozurei | Shozurei
Self-care is important! Consider getting a nanny for family events 🙌
LauraBaura | LauraBaura
Putting her health first should be the priority. NTA 👍
Princesshannon2002 | Princesshannon2002
User calls out pregnant DIL for prioritizing in-laws' feelings. 🙅♀️
alydalf | alydalf
Skipping a family trip with grandkids- NTA explained 👍
Puffkie | Puffkie
In-laws reduce pregnant DIL to 'incubator and babysitter' 😤
dogsinshirts | dogsinshirts
Pregnant DIL's in-laws trip canceled, but are they the a**holes?
callmeb84 | callmeb84
In-laws demand pregnant DIL travel with triplets, toddler, preschooler. NTA.
Ok-Writing9280 | Ok-Writing9280
Being inflexible won't help MIL maintain relationships with family. 🙅♀️
chartreuse_avocado | chartreuse_avocado
In-laws prioritize their comfort over pregnant daughter-in-law's health 😡
Moemoe5 | Moemoe5
Taking care of kids in a hotel is not a holiday 🙅♀️
blueberriNZ | blueberriNZ
Supportive comment from fellow mom with personal experience ❤️
Quirky-Smoke3584 | Quirky-Smoke3584
Pregnant woman's safety concerns for triplets supported by commenter
Regular_Silver3649 | Regular_Silver3649
NTA and MIL is an AH for valuing vacation over health. 🤰🎿🙅♀️
Jackfruityloops | Jackfruityloops
Supportive comment suggests husband stay back, offers potential solution 🤝
duckchickendog | duckchickendog
Supportive comment for pregnant woman handling in-laws' trip ❤️
Ritocas3 | Ritocas3
Grandma's plan: Three toddlers in hotel room? 🤔😳
regus0307 | regus0307
MIL is a narcissist and doesn't care about grandkids. You do you! 👏
Forsaken-Ad5161 | Forsaken-Ad5161
Husband hypocritical, commenter supports DIL. NTA 👍
Basic-Yesterday-5641 | Basic-Yesterday-5641
NTA. MIL is self-centered. Ignore her histrionics. Best of luck! 👍
PoppyStaff | PoppyStaff
Pregnant woman carrying triplets is guilt-tripped by in-laws, NTA 👏
Deep_Rig_1820 | Deep_Rig_1820
