Husband's SHOCKING Ultimatum: 'I Work 80 Hours, You MUST Stay Home!' 😠

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🍼 Buckle up, folks! We've got a doozy of a dilemma on our hands. 😳 Meet our new mom, torn between her love for her job and the pressure to stay home with her baby. 🤱 Her hubby, Jeff, did a total 180 after their little bundle of joy arrived, insisting she quit her job ASAP! 😲 But wait, there's more! Jeff's taken on a crazy high-stress job to support the fam, but is it worth the sacrifice? 🤔 Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster and see if we can help this mom navigate the twists and turns! 🎢

🍼 A New Mom's Dilemma: Work or Stay Home? 🤔

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😲 Hubby's Shocking 180: Quit Your Job, NOW! 😠

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🤨 Hubby's Mystery Job: Double the Pay, Double the Stress! 😰

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👨‍💼 Workaholic Hubby: Sleep, Work, Repeat! 😴💼

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😤 Hubby's Ultimatum: Quit or Else! 😡

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😠 Hubby's Fury: "Everyone Warned Me!" 🗣️

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💪 Standing My Ground: I Planned for This! 🗓️

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😨 Fearing Hubby's Control: A Dangerous Precedent? 🚨

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😥 In-Laws' Guilt Trip: "Jeff Will Spiral into Depression!" 😢

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🤗 Supportive Wife: Doing My Best Despite the Pressure! 💕

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👭👨‍👧 Divided Opinions: Mom & BFF vs. Sis & Dad! 🗳️

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🤷‍♀️ AITA for Refusing to Quit? 🙅‍♀️

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😱 New Mom's Dilemma: To Work or Not to Work? 🤔💼

Our new mom is caught in a whirlwind of emotions and pressure from all sides! 🌪️ Her hubby, Jeff, is adamant that she quit her job to stay home with their baby, even taking on a super stressful 80-hour work week to make it happen. 😰 But our mom had always planned to keep working, with her own mom helping out with the little one. 👵 Now, she's facing guilt trips from Jeff's family, who think she's selfish for not caving. 😢 Her own family is divided on the issue, leaving her wondering if she's doing the right thing. 🤷‍♀️ It's a tough situation, and our mom is determined to stand her ground, but at what cost to her marriage? 💔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this emotional tug-of-war! 🗣️

Don't let him guilt you into being a SAHM! 😡

90DayF | 90DayF

🚩 Red flags raised as husband demands wife quit job 🤔

wmreeves613 | wmreeves613

Spouse demands jobless marriage, but OP stands firm. NTA 👏

alongstrangesomethin | alongstrangesomethin

NTA husband assumes and doesn't communicate, it's his bed to lie.

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Husband demands SAHM, guilt trips postpartum wife. NTA. Counseling recommended.

Ezada | Ezada

Stay strong and don't let your husband control your life. 🙅

Viperbunny | Viperbunny

Husband ignores wife's wishes and demands she quit job 😡

Tanooki07 | Tanooki07

Husband's ultimatum to stay-at-home is manipulative and horrible. NTA.

murderousbudgie | murderousbudgie

Savage comment shutting down the husband's ultimatum. 💯

revanchisto | revanchisto

Go back to work and be happy! You're not responsible.

IChooseYouSnorlax | IChooseYouSnorlax

Standing up for yourself and your career goals 💪

PurrrrmanentFixture | PurrrrmanentFixture

Don't let anyone control your career 💪🏻

sabreyna | sabreyna

Don't give in to emotional blackmail 💪🏼💼 It's not worth it.

Rastavaray | Rastavaray

Working mom advises against letting husband control family decisions 💪

1890rafaella | 1890rafaella

Supportive comment defends new mother's decision to not stay home.

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Husband's ultimatum backfires as wife stands her ground. NTA 🙅‍♀️

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Don't let him force you into a role. Die on this hill dude. NTA. 💪

amhran_oiche | amhran_oiche

Stay strong and stick to your values. His ultimatum is toxic 🙎

Pollypocketful | Pollypocketful

Go back to work if it makes you happy! NTA 👍

itsybitsyash | itsybitsyash

Don't give in! Encourage him to get his old job back. 💪

Nebsy_Websy | Nebsy_Websy

Husband's ultimatum makes marriage a doomed 1950's stereotype. NTA

ceallachdon | ceallachdon

Don't be trapped! Stay strong and hold your ground. 🚫👩‍👧

HowardProject | HowardProject

Husband's ultimatum backfires after not believing his wife. NTA 😒

StrayLilCat | StrayLilCat

Don't let sexist in-laws ruin your career. 🙅‍♀️🚫

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Red flag alert! 🚩 Reevaluate the relationship and his intentions.

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Defend your job and call out his gossiping friends! 🙅‍♀️💼

Ashes_falldown | Ashes_falldown

Don't back down! Tell him counseling or separation. 🙌

vzvv | vzvv

Maintain your financial independence and do not let yourself be controlled. 💪

ghostforest | ghostforest

Partner's ultimatum is manipulative and disrespectful. #NTA 😡

PromiseThomas | PromiseThomas

Challenging the husband's ultimatum with practical suggestions. 💪

Musical__Angel | Musical__Angel

Husband wants wife to stay home while he works 80 hours. Commenter questions his priorities. 🤔

dart1126 | dart1126

Partner's outdated thinking causing rift in career-driven marriage 😔

miamimely | miamimely

Don't sacrifice your career for an a**hole! NTA x1M 😠

Bestrong2 | Bestrong2

Don't let him control you! Financial and social abuse is unacceptable 🚩

MoreAstronomer | MoreAstronomer

NTA and staying home may cause resentment. Heart to heart needed 💜

Flippn_Freddy | Flippn_Freddy

Stick to your guns! Don't let others dictate your choices. 💪

MageVicky | MageVicky

Hold your ground, NTA. Stick to your plan and boundaries. 💪

SprSnkySnickerdoodle | SprSnkySnickerdoodle

Husband demands wife to stay home, gets called out as AH 😠

Sfb208 | Sfb208

Partner's 80-hour workweek & demands for SAHM are insane 😱

Tall_Tax8030 | Tall_Tax8030

Spontaneous decision, toxic family, and NTA. Tell them off! 👊

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Husband ignores wife's wishes, faces consequences. Don't let guilt consume.

Raziel_ | Raziel_

Why sacrifice family time for outdated gender roles? 😕

Living_la_vida_hobo | Living_la_vida_hobo

Marriage is a partnership, talk to him. Don't listen to manipulators. 😍

winterthecat | winterthecat

Red flags raised on husband's ultimatum. Isolation and manipulation tactics?

Comprehensive_Floor6 | Comprehensive_Floor6

Don't let his family manipulate you. NTA 👍

concretism | concretism

Don't let anyone else make decisions for your marriage! 👏

MimiDXB | MimiDXB

Don't cave! 🚫👨‍💼 Sexist ultimatums deserve consequences. 👊

treemouth | treemouth

Partner's sexist ultimatum: 'I work 80 hours, you MUST stay home!' 😠

h_witko | h_witko

Building a financial cushion or neglecting family? 🤔

SnooFoxes4362 | SnooFoxes4362

Husband wants wife to stay home, but is he ready for fatherhood? 😬

Gowanbrae | Gowanbrae

Stand your ground! Don't let him bully you into quitting! 💪

trilliumsummer | trilliumsummer

Husband's family are major red flags, seek couples therapy 👆

Shruggles8 | Shruggles8

Don't let anyone decide your career for you! 💪

BaffledMum | BaffledMum

Don't sacrifice your happiness for his ego. NTA 👍

ducktruck27 | ducktruck27

Don't be a brood mare, raise a baby girl who can kick ass in the workforce! 💪🏻

rzrbladess | rzrbladess

NTA stands firm against husband's manipulative and archaic ultimatum. 💪

chanteusetriste | chanteusetriste

Choose your own path. Don't let anyone force you. 👍

Kat122697 | Kat122697

Husband demands wife to quit job, blames her for his depression 😡

stewbugx | stewbugx

Don't fall for the facade, stand your ground 💪 NTA!

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User empathizes with the situation but suspects manipulative behavior 🤔

MusicalMarijuana | MusicalMarijuana

Stand your ground! Your career choices are yours to make. ✊

Khay72 | Khay72

Don't sacrifice your autonomy for an unpredictable man. 🙏

abcwva | abcwva

Husband disregards wife's opinion on job after maternity leave. NTA.

fiveoclockmocktail | fiveoclockmocktail

Stay-at-home dad? Husband's ultimatum backfires. NTA! 😎

doer_of_thungs | doer_of_thungs

Husband wants wife to be SAHM, works 80 hrs/week. NTA comments.

smriversong | smriversong

Empowering response to husband's controlling ultimatum. 💪

CutesPDX | CutesPDX

Husband's ultimatum backfires, commenters call him a moron. 😂

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Partner's unreasonable demand: work 80 hours, you stay home. NTA.

hot4you11 | hot4you11

Don't quit your job! NTA for wanting to work 👏

pinkcherry99 | pinkcherry99

Don't quit your job! You'll regret it. NTA 👍

Ok_Raspberry_1930 | Ok_Raspberry_1930

Stand your ground and go back to work! NTA 😎💼

ApartLocksmith1 | ApartLocksmith1

Spouse's absurd plan to guilt-trip partner into staying home. NTA 😎

Dogismygod | Dogismygod

Don't quit. In-laws need to butt out. Communicate with husband. 👍

hidinginthepantry | hidinginthepantry

Don't set yourself on fire to keep him warm. You're NTA.

Ebyanyothername | Ebyanyothername

Partner's ultimatum raises red flags. Job is his choice.

CaroAurelia | CaroAurelia

Teamwork makes the dream work. Hold firm to your plans 💪

ulalumelenore | ulalumelenore

NTA stands firm against unfair ultimatum. Wild situation. 😠

SluttyHufflepuff | SluttyHufflepuff

Husband doesn't listen, puts himself in stressful situation. NTA 👍

chamomile24 | chamomile24

NTA. Husband's ultimatum is unsustainable. Keep your job for income.

DeciusAemilius | DeciusAemilius

Husband lied about new job, wants wife to stay home. NTA.

GloomyNucleus | GloomyNucleus

Don't let others dictate your life choices, NTA. 👏

YarnAndMetal | YarnAndMetal

Major red flag territory! Don't quit your job, stay strong 💪

Chrysania83 | Chrysania83

Being financially independent is crucial. Stand your ground, NTA. 💪

IllustratorNew8801 | IllustratorNew8801

Stand your ground and go back to work. 💪👩‍💼

monsignorbabaganoush | monsignorbabaganoush

Husband manipulates wife into quitting job, gets called out (NTA) 😠

iamevilcupcake | iamevilcupcake

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