Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a doozy of a dilemma here. 😳 Imagine this: Your dear old dad just had surgery and is stuck on the couch recovering. 🏥🛋️ Meanwhile, the girl you've been seeing is having a rough time with panic attacks. 😰 Talk about bad timing, right? 🙄 So, what do you do when you're torn between being a good son and a supportive boyfriend? 🤔 Let's dive into this juicy story and see if our protagonist is really the a-hole here! 👀
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Dad's Surgery 🏥 Means He's Stuck on the Couch 🛋️
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Trying to Be a Good Son 👨👦 and Help Out
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Girl I'm Seeing 👧 Is Having Panic Attacks 😰
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She Demands I Prioritize Her 😠 Over My Recovering Dad
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She Knew the Situation 🤨 But Still Got Upset
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Am I Really the A-hole? 🤔 I'm Torn
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The Dilemma in a Nutshell 🥜
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She's Mad 😡 I Won't Leave My Recovering Dad
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Plot Twist! 😲 She Dumps Me Over Text
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I'm Not Even Upset 🤷♂️ Family Comes First
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Family Drama or Relationship Woes? 👨👦❤️👧 You Decide!
Well, well, well... looks like our main man here is caught between a rock and a hard place! 😅 On one hand, he's trying to be a dutiful son and help his recovering dad out. 👨👦 On the other, his lady friend is demanding his attention during her panic attacks. 😰 Talk about a no-win situation! 🤦♂️ But wait, there's more! She goes and dumps him over text for not prioritizing her! 😲 Ouch, that's gotta sting. 🐝 But hey, at least he's not too torn up about it and is focusing on his dad's recovery. 🙌 Now, let's see what the internet has to say about this wild ride of a story! 🎢💬
NTA. Commenter applauds OP and calls out selfish girlfriend. 👏
JoshDunkley | JoshDunkley
Don't ignore red flags, even for love. 🙅
lilmiscantberong | lilmiscantberong
NTA, and girlfriend is a pain in the a**. Demanding you leave your sick father to prioritize her is a weird power play. 😡
beeeeeebee | beeeeeebee
Don't sacrifice your family for a selfish partner. RUN! 🏃♂️
ShakeyBacon | ShakeyBacon
Putting your girlfriend's demand into perspective. 🤔
Straight-Singer-2912 | Straight-Singer-2912
Spot-on observation on girlfriend's self-centered behavior 😎
SJoyD | SJoyD
Don't ditch family for a 'girl you are seeing' 😡. Set healthy boundaries.
Rosie-Disposition | Rosie-Disposition
Balancing priorities in a relationship can be tough. 💔
timothybcat | timothybcat
NTA prioritizes sick dad over selfish girlfriend 🙏
DrMindbendersMonocle | DrMindbendersMonocle
Girlfriend demands he choose: her or sick dad. Commenter says NTA.
WayMoreCowbell | WayMoreCowbell
Priorities matter! A partner should respect them. 👍
Pronebasilisk | Pronebasilisk
Don't ditch your sick dad for anyone! You are NTA 👍
GundyGalois | GundyGalois
NTA. Take care of your dad and set boundaries with gf 🙌
unlovelyladybartleby | unlovelyladybartleby
NTA, prioritize family over selfish partners. 🙌
whatsmypassword73 | whatsmypassword73
Putting your girlfriend first shouldn't mean ditching your sick dad. #NTA 🙏
Daligheri | Daligheri
Supportive comment defends OP's decision to prioritize sick dad 🤗
maroongrad | maroongrad
Not responsible for fixing girlfriend's anxiety attacks. NTA 😊
nope-111 | nope-111
Don't let her use you as an emotional support animal 🚫🐕
The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver
Girlfriend demands OP choose her over sick dad - commenters disagree
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Don't ditch your sick dad for a girlfriend 😡
Legal-Goat8110 | Legal-Goat8110
Selfish girlfriend prioritizes herself over your sick dad. NTA.
PrincessBella1 | PrincessBella1
Putting family first and dodging a dramatic, exhausting bullet. 👌
Not-nuts | Not-nuts
Is she really concerned about your dad's health? 🤔
[deleted] | [deleted]
Partner's sick mum or girlfriend? NTA prioritized well 👍
staticdragonfly | staticdragonfly
Choosing a sick dad over demanding girlfriend - NTA 👍
Altruistic_You737 | Altruistic_You737
Accusation of fake anxiety attacks to manipulate, call out toxic behavior. NTA.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Marriage veteran warns of future with selfish girlfriend. 😱
Pjs8200 | Pjs8200
Taking care of dad > pleasing selfish girlfriend 👍
CJsMom2000 | CJsMom2000
Standing up for family care is always the right choice 👏
Significant-Set8457 | Significant-Set8457
Get out of that toxic relationship! You deserve better. ❤️
TheWatermelonDino | TheWatermelonDino
NTA. GF is manipulative and dependent. Don't apologize or grovel. 😡
teresajs | teresajs
Is the girlfriend's anxiety really about attention? 🤔
hmg07 | hmg07
Don't prioritize a selfish partner over your sick dad. #NTA 🙌
ElectronicAmphibian7 | ElectronicAmphibian7
Block her and move on! Mental health matters, not her demands 🙅
RedTalyn | RedTalyn
Don't ditch your sick dad for your gf! NTA 👏
lindylady9601 | lindylady9601
Even the dog knows better. Set boundaries with your FWB 😄
Multi-Facets | Multi-Facets
NTA. GF's demand to prioritize her over sick dad is a red flag. 🚩
LoveThickWives | LoveThickWives
Supportive comment encourages prioritizing family over girlfriend's selfish demand. 👍
SnooRadishes5305 | SnooRadishes5305
Prioritizing sick dad over demanding girlfriend 👍
VermicelliNo2422 | VermicelliNo2422
NTA shares personal experience and calls out girlfriend's selfish demand 🙌
practical-junkie | practical-junkie
Girlfriend demands to ditch your sick dad? Run. 😡
anitarielleliphe | anitarielleliphe
Girlfriend's demand is a selfish power play, NTA.
Impossible_Ad6477 | Impossible_Ad6477
Ditch the girlfriend, not your sick dad! 😡
Usalien1 | Usalien1
👍 Don't let anyone come between you and your family.
grouchymonk1517 | grouchymonk1517
Is it a red flag? 🚩 Keep an eye out
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Encourage therapy for girlfriend's anxiety or ditch her? 🤔
PrettyLyon43 | PrettyLyon43
Don't let her manipulate you into neglecting your family. 😡
embracedthegrey | embracedthegrey
Selfish girlfriend demands choice between her and sick dad 🤯
Fahsalga | Fahsalga
Don't let panic attacks be an excuse for manipulation 🙅
bina101 | bina101
Empathetic response to girlfriend's unreasonable demand. 🤔
lil-nan72 | lil-nan72
Is she using her anxiety to manipulate you? 🤔
JerseyJaime | JerseyJaime
Partner jealous of attention to sick dad. NTA needs therapy.
eleanor-rigby- | eleanor-rigby-
Encouraging response to someone dealing with panic attacks 💪
Churchie-Baby | Churchie-Baby
NTA. Encouraging professional help for anxiety management. 🙌
sarashortnfat | sarashortnfat
Don't let a selfish partner steal your attention 🙏
SlinkyMalinky20 | SlinkyMalinky20
Putting your sick dad first is the right thing to do 👍
kb-g | kb-g
Demanding prioritization may be manipulation. Watch out! 🚨
maantre | maantre
Don't let her use panic attacks to manipulate you. Run! 🙌
HPNerd44 | HPNerd44
Prioritizing dad over entitled girlfriend - NTA wins 🏆
thatplantgirl97 | thatplantgirl97
Be cautious of manipulative partners, prioritize family over partners 🙏
eyore5775 | eyore5775
NTA. Prioritizing sick dad > selfish girlfriend. She needs perspective 🤔
purplehippobitches | purplehippobitches
Red flags galore: don't ditch your sick dad for her! 😡
ThatOneChickMeg | ThatOneChickMeg
Don't fall for it! It's a test and a red flag 🚨
BooRoWo | BooRoWo
Being there for family is priority, NTA. 👍
pl0ur | pl0ur
Girlfriend's selfish demand is not justified. NTA for prioritizing dad 👍
Ill-Conversation5210 | Ill-Conversation5210
NTA, GF is selfish and can't see beyond her own needs 😒
[deleted] | [deleted]
Partner's anxiety doesn't excuse selfish demand to abandon sick father 😒
Time_Neat_4732 | Time_Neat_4732
Supporting a sick family member should not lead to punishment.
Several-Jelly4918 | Several-Jelly4918
Girlfriend's selfishness could lead to isolation. 🚫
Mountain_Flamingo759 | Mountain_Flamingo759
Selfish girlfriend demands priority over sick dad. NTA, move on.
cycophuk | cycophuk
Partner's behavior may be manipulative, major red flag 🚩
Obsessed_Til_Death | Obsessed_Til_Death
