Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a juicy relationship dilemma that's sure to get your heart racing and your jaw dropping. 😱 Our leading lady, a 24-year-old in a 4-year relationship, just got hit with a bombshell that's left her reeling. 💣 Her boyfriend wants to open up their relationship, and he's not taking no for an answer! 🙅♀️ Get ready for a wild ride filled with ultimatums, heartbreak, and some serious soul-searching. 🎢💔 Can our heroine navigate this emotional minefield and come out unscathed? 🤔 Let's dive in and find out! 🏊♀️
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😱 Bombshell Alert: BF Wants an Open Relationship! 💣
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Picture Perfect Relationship... Until Now 😳
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BF Wants His Cake and to Eat It Too 🍰😏
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Voicing My Concerns Led to a Shocking Ultimatum 😲
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Caught Between a Rock and a Hard Place 🪨😫
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The Thought of Him With Someone Else Tears Me Apart 💔
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BF Claims I'm Stifling His Freedom 🚫🕊️
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AITAH for Rejecting the Open Relationship Ultimatum? 🤔
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😱 Boyfriend's Open Relationship Ultimatum Leaves GF Heartbroken and Confused! 💔🤯
Well, well, well... looks like we've got ourselves a classic case of 'boyfriend wants to have his cake and eat it too'! 🍰😏 Our poor leading lady is caught between a rock and a hard place, torn between her love for her man and her own emotional well-being. 😫 The thought of him getting frisky with someone else is tearing her apart, but he's not backing down! 😤 He's even accusing her of being controlling and unfair for rejecting his ultimatum. 🚫🕊️ Talk about a lose-lose situation! 😞 Now, she's left questioning whether she made the right choice or if she should have compromised her own feelings for the sake of their relationship. 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy dilemma! 🌐👀
Standing up for boundaries and self-respect 💪
Spambot19 | Spambot19
Move on, sis. He's sus and wants a one-sided open relationship 👍
cultqueennn | cultqueennn
Walk away from the abusive ultimatum. NTA 👍
imothro | imothro
BF's ultimatum and name-calling: NTA, BF is a controlling a**hole 💔
HUNGWHITEBOI25 | HUNGWHITEBOI25
Incompatibility is key. NTA. 👍
peakpenguins | peakpenguins
Rejecting ultimatum from cheating BF. NTA! 👏
Mean-Impress2103 | Mean-Impress2103
Ultimatum given, move on. 🚶♂️👋
Katana1369 | Katana1369
You said no to open relationship ultimatum - NTA 👏
Wiser_Owl99 | Wiser_Owl99
🚫 Consent matters. He's abusive and unwilling to compromise. Leave him.
WetMonkeyTalk | WetMonkeyTalk
Respect yourself and leave the a**hole 👏
Straysmom | Straysmom
You go, girl! 💪🏾👏🏾 You deserve better than being someone's second choice.
armomo3 | armomo3
Incompatible desires. Suspected cheating. Painful breakup. 😢
Broad-Discipline2360 | Broad-Discipline2360
Savage advice 💥. But he deserves it. Dump him!
WavesnMountains | WavesnMountains
Savage response shuts down absurd ultimatum and tantrum. 😂
stopped_watch | stopped_watch
Ending a toxic relationship is never easy 💔
NoImagination7892 | NoImagination7892
NTA. Ultimatum is a red flag, time to end it 👋
CrabbiestAsp | CrabbiestAsp
Open relationships require mutual understanding and consent from the beginning. #NTA 👍
Careful-Listen2277 | Careful-Listen2277
Choosing to heal without him. NTA 👏
opensilkrobe | opensilkrobe
Choosing monogamy over open relationship. NTA or ESH?
Tough_Scar27 | Tough_Scar27
Being coerced into an open relationship is not okay. 👍
Curious_Interest_313 | Curious_Interest_313
NTA for sticking with your boundaries, cut and block 👏
Much-Recording9444 | Much-Recording9444
Rejecting open relationship ultimatum, NTA. Interesting Reddit post about it.
rshni67 | rshni67
Red flag! The ultimatum was just the beginning. Run away! 😱
MakatasxD | MakatasxD
True love is about mutual support, not ultimatums. 💔👏
shammy_dammy | shammy_dammy
NTA declines open relationship ultimatum, BF pitches snit fit 😱
monkeysaurusmom | monkeysaurusmom
Laughing and dodging ultimatums – NTA wins this breakup.
Dont_Hurt_Me_Mommy | Dont_Hurt_Me_Mommy
24 and dealing with an angry boyfriend's ultimatum. 🤔
knittedjedi | knittedjedi
End it and move on! 🚪👋
Fine-Bumblebee-9427 | Fine-Bumblebee-9427
Drop him like a dirty hamster wheel 🐒
anasanaben | anasanaben
NTA but your bloke is a controlling arse. 👏👏 Cut all contact.
MolassesInevitable53 | MolassesInevitable53
Polyamory under duress is unethical and coercive. Good on you!
Cool_Relative7359 | Cool_Relative7359
Poly commenter advises to leave after ultimatum for open relationship.
Prior-Culture1957 | Prior-Culture1957
NTA. Suggests partner may already be cheating. End it. 👍
CleverRedditName13 | CleverRedditName13
Relationship doomed as partner seeks open relationship against wishes
alimweber | alimweber
Rejected open relationship ultimatum, kept self-worth intact. NTA 👏
Sea_Firefighter_4598 | Sea_Firefighter_4598
User warns against holding onto incompatible and manipulative relationships.
cursetea | cursetea
Warning about opening up relationships. Support for moving on.
Necrome112 | Necrome112
Leave him! 🚶♀️ You deserve better than being a backup.
threadsoffate2021 | threadsoffate2021
Dump the douche who demands a free pass 👍, NTA.
wakingdreamland | wakingdreamland
NTA, he's selfish. Don't wait, walk away and get tested 👌
Wallflower515 | Wallflower515
Red flag alert! Glad she dodged this controlling bullet 💯
Lower_Awareness_2609 | Lower_Awareness_2609
Trust your instincts, dump him and find support 👏🏻
Nedstarkclash | Nedstarkclash
Leave him! Open relationship led to my girlfriend cheating on me 💔
Strong-Definition-56 | Strong-Definition-56
Leave now to avoid future emotional and verbal abuse. 🚫
gggianaxx | gggianaxx
NTA. Respect is a two-way street 👍. Ultimatum backfired on him 😂
throwaway798319 | throwaway798319
BF wants to have his cake and eat it too 🤬
MarkVII88 | MarkVII88
Suggests a break-up and bets on emotional independence. 🤔
oradba | oradba
Don't settle for someone who isn't committed to you ✨
wlfwrtr | wlfwrtr
Agree to open relationship, get revenge by dating others. 👌
RepulsiveWorker3636 | RepulsiveWorker3636
Choose monogamy or end the relationship, don't be a backup 👍
3Heathens_Mom | 3Heathens_Mom
Maturity matters! NTA stands firm against open relationship ultimatum 👏
MiserablePotato1147 | MiserablePotato1147
Brutal but effective breakup strategy. Relationship is over 💔
dogfishfrostbite | dogfishfrostbite
NTA. Don't settle for someone who wants to have it all. 🤔
opshleen | opshleen
End it, check for STDs, and move on. NTA 👍
waaasupla | waaasupla
Don't let him guilt trip you, kick him to the curb 👋
Librashell | Librashell
Accusation of cheating, ultimatum and manipulation. Break up! NTA 👍
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NTA: BF's ultimatum is emotionally manipulative; he doesn't respect you. 💔
kavk27 | kavk27
NTA. You dodged a bullet 💯. Don't fall for his manipulations.
Endora529 | Endora529
NTA. Monogamy is not controlling. Ultimatum is not okay. 👍
RestaurantUnlikely54 | RestaurantUnlikely54
Stay strong, don't take him back if he crawls back 💪
markbrev | markbrev
Ethical non-monogamy is about mutual respect and consent. NTA, run! 👋🏻💯
The_One_True_Imp | The_One_True_Imp
Validating OP's boundaries and suggesting counseling for incompatible ultimatum. 👍
HungryAd8233 | HungryAd8233
Break up with him before he breaks you. 👋👌
Sad_daddington | Sad_daddington
Choose monogamy or let him go 🤷♀️
Jazzberry81 | Jazzberry81
NTA for rejecting ultimatum, he should have had a real conversation 👏
moonmanbaby90272 | moonmanbaby90272
Suggests a hilarious solution to boyfriend's open relationship ultimatum. NTA.
BurdenedMind79 | BurdenedMind79
Love is a compromise, but not at the cost of your values. ❤️
Triavanicus | Triavanicus
Protect your sanity and don't compromise. NTA! 👏
Fine-Geologist-695 | Fine-Geologist-695
Stand your ground, don't let him bully you. 💪
Rockie86 | Rockie86
Enforcing boundaries isn't controlling, he's manipulative. NTA 👍
BWC1992 | BWC1992
Break up with him; he's emotionally abusing you 💔
writingisfreedom | writingisfreedom
Choose you, not the ultimatum. Don't settle for less 👍
Frosty_Comparison_85 | Frosty_Comparison_85
A shocking proposal and a deserved reaction. 🙀💥
beardbloke34 | beardbloke34
Rejects open relationship ultimatum, now ex is furious. NTA 😎
fuxkitall999 | fuxkitall999
Supportive comment calling out gaslighting. Walk away 👋
RedDevilsAus | RedDevilsAus
Savage advice 💥 Find a better dude and leave his a**
Final_Philosophy7726 | Final_Philosophy7726
Partner wants open relationship, NTA for saying no 👍
GemueseBeerchen | GemueseBeerchen
Avoid ultimatums in relationships. Don't compromise your values. 👍
BugbearBro | BugbearBro
NTA shuts down BF with a nuclear option 🚀
Auroraburst | Auroraburst
Protect your self-respect, he's already left you. 👏
Defiant-Emu8369 | Defiant-Emu8369
Stand your ground and find someone who appreciates you! 👍
SuccessfulInternal40 | SuccessfulInternal40
Dump him and get tested! He doesn't care about you 👎
Round-Pirate7286 | Round-Pirate7286
NTA. Gendered open relationships often fail due to jealousy. 🤷♀️
agemsheis | agemsheis
Boot his a** out! NTA, stay true to your boundaries. 💪
panachi19 | panachi19
Partner's ultimatum exposed his manipulative and disloyal character. 💯
ehyme__ | ehyme__
