🚨 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy tale of love, breakfast, and... theft? 😱 When a well-meaning girlfriend decides to whip up a surprise breakfast for her snoozing sweetheart, things take an unexpected turn. 🍳 Armed with her boyfriend's credit card and a hunger for romance, she sets out on a secret shopping spree. 🛒 But when Sleeping Beauty awakens to the shocking revelation, accusations fly, and tears flow! 😢 Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions as we dive into this couple's crumbling culinary caper! 🎢
Thoughtful GF or Credit Card THIEF? 💔 Man's Reaction to Surprise Breakfast SHOCKS!
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🍳 Surprise Breakfast Gone Wrong! 😱
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🛌 Sleeping Beauty's Credit Card Caper 💳
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🤔 Questioning the Surprise Shopping Spree 🛒
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😴 No Time for Consent When You're Snoozing! 💤
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😲 Shock and Confusion: Not the Reaction She Expected! 😢
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😭 Tears and Tantrums: The Aftermath of the Accusation 🚪
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📞 Hang-Ups and Paybacks: The Silent Treatment Begins 🤐
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🙏 To Apologize or Not to Apologize? That is the Question! 🤔
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🍳 Breakfast Blunder Leads to Relationship Meltdown! 😱
Well, well, well... it seems our surprise breakfast didn't quite hit the spot! 😬 Instead of swooning over his girlfriend's thoughtful gesture, our protagonist accused her of theft for using his credit card without permission. 😲 Cue the waterworks and a dramatic exit! 😭🚪 Now, with his sister calling him an ungrateful jerk and his girlfriend giving him the silent treatment, he's left wondering if he's the a-hole in this messy situation. 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this sizzling drama! 🔥 Grab your popcorn, folks, because the responses are bound to be spicy! 🍿🌶️
Taking someone's credit card without asking is a huge violation 👎
LLizard55 | LLizard55
GF takes credit card without permission, BF's response too harsh. ❌
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NTA gets support for not liking GF's credit card surprise 👍
dogluver_99 | dogluver_99
Taking someone's credit card, regardless of intent, shows real immaturity. NTA.
Ninerism | Ninerism
Man overreacts to girlfriend's use of his credit card 😕
skidoo1032 | skidoo1032
Core question of sub is 'am I the a-hole', not 'am I technically right'. ESH for poor communication.
Jasper5510 | Jasper5510
ESH, but OP could've communicated better without calling her a thief. 🤔
JaavaMocha | JaavaMocha
Financial empathy wins the day. NTA 👍
Hour_Baby_7336 | Hour_Baby_7336
Deliberate non-apology to thoughtful GF - YTA 👎
JFKFC | JFKFC
🚫💳 GF used his card without consent. NTA for being upset.
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Is she a THIEF or just a forgetful GF? 🤔🤔
Leahcheese | Leahcheese
Dating for 7 months and she uses your money? 🤔 NTA.
UnhappyCryptographer | UnhappyCryptographer
NTA. GF violated boundary, 7 months not long enough 👍
RobinsRoads05 | RobinsRoads05
Breakfast theft leads to relationship breakdown, ESH.
ssmit102 | ssmit102
NTA but don't ruin a thoughtful moment with a harsh reaction 😔
Cheap_Labor | Cheap_Labor
Communication is key! Don't jump to conclusions, have conversations 👍
DaOneSavvyPanda | DaOneSavvyPanda
Insensitive commenter gets called out for not considering girlfriend's motives 🙄
OneBeautifulDog | OneBeautifulDog
Relationship misalignment causes breakfast surprise backlash. 💔
Serpentine17 | Serpentine17
When a surprise breakfast is bought with your money...🤔
amaldesc | amaldesc
User questions communication and defends girlfriend's actions.
OwlatHeart | OwlatHeart
NTA, surprise breakfast badly executed, GF stole credit card 💔
KitMitchell | KitMitchell
Ungrateful BF calls his GF a thief for surprise breakfast 😒
Ayelmar | Ayelmar
GF stole without permission, man's reaction justified. 👍
FrankensteinMuenster | FrankensteinMuenster
Sister defends girlfriend accused of theft, but is she guilty? 🤔
OsciIIatesWildly | OsciIIatesWildly
Respectful comment suggests communication is key in relationships 👍
Acceptable-Abalone20 | Acceptable-Abalone20
Don't touch my money unless we're married 💍😤 #NTA
Tiffany_Case | Tiffany_Case
A thoughtful gesture gone wrong, but both learned a lesson. 😊
celrian | celrian
Respect boundaries and money. NTA for being upset.
depressivedarling | depressivedarling
Setting boundaries is important, but calling her a thief was wrong 😔
mythicb33ch | mythicb33ch
Curious if taking each other's cards is normal or suspicious 🤔
paganbreed | paganbreed
ESH: Communication is key, not being right. 👉🏼 Ask, don't assume. 👍🏼
Capturedbk1 | Capturedbk1
YTA, but she paid you back 💰 and ignored you 📞
thicctactick21 | thicctactick21
ESH but calling her a thief makes you a drama queen 🤦♂️ Listen to her POV
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User suggests OP was overreacting and calls him YTA 👀
Embarrassed_Floor850 | Embarrassed_Floor850
GF stole credit card for breakfast, cries when not thanked. 🤷🏻♂️
ILikeToPoopOnYou | ILikeToPoopOnYou
GF's good intentions crossed boundaries but not a thief. ESH?
tlf555 | tlf555
Man overreacts to GF using his money for a nice gesture 😒
CaptainMatteo | CaptainMatteo
GF uses BF's credit card to surprise him, gets called out
keesouth | keesouth
NTA suspects GF was testing to steal credit card 👋
meifahs_musungs | meifahs_musungs
User thinks man is the a**hole for calling GF a thief
RaulsterMaster | RaulsterMaster
ESH- Well-intentioned GF crosses a boundary, but OP reacts rudely. 💔
OllieOllieOxenfry | OllieOllieOxenfry
Setting boundaries: NTA calls out GF's credit card theft 😳
photosbeersandteach | photosbeersandteach
Set boundaries. NTA. Surprises should not involve credit card theft.
Whitestaunton | Whitestaunton
Misunderstanding leads to conflict in relationship. Both should apologize. 💔
KatAtWork | KatAtWork
Accused of theft, man's comment leads to break-up 💔
jenniferami | jenniferami
Is he overreacting or is there an imbalance present? 🤔
orangegadu | orangegadu
GF steals credit card to make breakfast: ESH, communication is key.
programerandstuff | programerandstuff
Credit card misuse leads to ESH behavior, communication is key.
CountingScars94 | CountingScars94
GF uses BF's card for breakfast, commenters say NTA.
JoneseyP98 | JoneseyP98
ESH but a conversation about boundaries and expectations is key 👍
romantic_leviathan | romantic_leviathan
GF used man's credit card without consent, NTA for being upset. 😠
redredhoneygold | redredhoneygold
Taking someone's credit card is unacceptable, but communication is key.
Alstroemeriana | Alstroemeriana
Man thinks GF is a thief, but both could have communicated better.
Disneyfreak77 | Disneyfreak77
ESH but thoughtful GF or credit card thief? Man's shocking reaction!
ATFA66 | ATFA66
Credit card theft and overreaction lead to ESH judgment.
eggeleg | eggeleg
Using someone's card without permission is not okay 💳
Constant_Camera3452 | Constant_Camera3452
Both wrong but could've discussed boundaries instead of overreacting. 🤔
No-Bullshit-Baby | No-Bullshit-Baby
Credit card theft or thoughtful gesture? ESH, intense reactions ensue.
findingbumbles | findingbumbles
Consent is key - NTA for being upset about credit card use 👍
ripleyxxoo | ripleyxxoo
Using someone's credit card without permission is not okay 👍
beatrixkiddo94 | beatrixkiddo94
Miscommunication leads to accusations of thievery 🤷♂️
LingonberryPrior6896 | LingonberryPrior6896
A breakfast surprise leads to accusations of theft. ESH.
brokenwarrior123 | brokenwarrior123
ESH. Communication is key. Reacted poorly to credit card incident.
safetyman1006 | safetyman1006
Respectful advice on handling credit card misuse in relationships. 👍
Tyger_83020 | Tyger_83020
User defends girlfriend, advises on setting boundaries respectfully. 👍
curlybelly62 | curlybelly62
Dating for 7 months doesn't entitle her to your credit card 💳. NTA 👍
childofthe_stars | childofthe_stars
Setting boundaries with thoughtful but thieving GF 🤔
Language_Calm | Language_Calm
A rocky relationship with poor communication skills causes trouble. 😬
zoanthropist | zoanthropist
Credit card drama and mixed reactions to surprise breakfast 🤷🏻♂️
EnRouted | EnRouted
Both parties at fault. Communication is key. 👍
zedoktar | zedoktar
Poor communication leads to ESH situation 😕
darbymc26 | darbymc26
Money issues cause tension and accusations in relationship. ESH.
Significant_Fee3083 | Significant_Fee3083
Enjoy the breakfast, but clarify card use later! 😊
Solanthas | Solanthas
GF steals credit card for surprise breakfast, ESH in handling
LessDemand1840 | LessDemand1840
Opinions divided on girlfriend using credit card for breakfast 🤷♀️
cookiecutie707 | cookiecutie707
Taking someone's credit card without asking is illegal and wrong 😒
Yukonkimmy | Yukonkimmy
A heated debate on whether 'credit card thief' was too harsh
meruhd | meruhd
ESH but good intentions 😊 Communication is key 📢
MissMayyDayy | MissMayyDayy
🤔 Communication breakdown over a $25 surprise breakfast? YTA.
notspreddit | notspreddit
Missing info raises doubts about man's accusation of credit card theft.
khanbot | khanbot
Gratitude matters! YTA for not appreciating the effort 😔
SmasherOfAjumma | SmasherOfAjumma
Man overreacted to GF's innocent mistake. YTA 🤷
StayclassyK_C | StayclassyK_C
🚩 NTA sees red flag in GF's surprise breakfast gesture.
Purpledoors3 | Purpledoors3
Credit card taken without permission, ungrateful reaction. ESH 👎🏻
tiederian | tiederian
🚨 Red flag alert! YTA needs therapy and emotional growth.
DaisyDee13 | DaisyDee13
User defends GF's surprise breakfast as thoughtful gesture. Op criticized.
lego_mannequin | lego_mannequin
User accuses OP of being a credit card thief 😬
xgorgeoustormx | xgorgeoustormx
GF's heart was in the right place, but taking card without permission makes ESH. OP needs to communicate better.
electricheat | electricheat
Debate lord or solution seeker? ESH in breakfast debacle 🍳
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