Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a juicy tale of love, money, and betrayal that'll make your head spin! 😵 Meet our unlucky-in-love protagonist, a gamer with a heart of gold and a wallet full of debt. 💸 His girlfriend, the generous lender turned ruthless debt collector, has him caught between a rock and a hard place. 😰 Will a lucky lottery win be his ticket to freedom, or will it tear their relationship apart? 🎫💔 Let's dive in and find out! 🏊♂️
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🎮 Gamer's Dilemma: Pay the Girlfriend or Feed the Hobby? 🤔
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💸 Bills Come First, But a Little Fun Money Never Hurts! 😉
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🤝 Loan Agreement Gone Awry: Girlfriend Changes the Rules! 😠
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🍝 Boyfriend Foots the Bill While Girlfriend Counts Her Cash! 💰
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🎉 Lottery Win Sparks Relationship Drama! 🎰
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💸 Girlfriend Demands Debt Payment Over Emergency Savings! 😤
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🤑 Who's Really Relying on Whom? Boyfriend Calls Out Girlfriend's Financial Dependence! 😲
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🗣️ Heated Argument Leads to Icy Silence! ❄️
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🤷♂️ Emergency Fund or Debt Payment? Boyfriend Questions His Choices! 🆘
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🎰 Lottery Win Leads to Relationship Meltdown! 💥
Well, well, well... looks like our gamer boyfriend hit the jackpot, but his girlfriend is far from thrilled! 😬 Instead of celebrating his lucky break, she's demanding he fork over the cash to pay off his debt to her. 💸 Talk about a buzzkill! 😒 But wait, there's more! Turns out, our guy has been footing the bill for their dates and adventures, all while his girlfriend sits on a pile of money like a dragon guarding its treasure. 🐉 The nerve! 😤 Now, the lovebirds are locked in a bitter standoff, with the boyfriend questioning his financial choices and the girlfriend giving him the silent treatment. 🙊 Let's see what the internet has to say about this messy situation! 🌐
Man calls GF greedy after loaning him 3k interest-free 🤷🏻♂️ but later comments suggest NTA 🤷🏻♂️. He still needs to pay her back.
smashbrawlguy | smashbrawlguy
YTA for prioritizing hobbies over paying debt and girlfriend.
ReferredByJorge | ReferredByJorge
Pay your debts! Don't take advantage of your girlfriend's generosity! 💸
WebbieVanderquack | WebbieVanderquack
NTA for not giving greedy girlfriend all of winnings 💰
HoldMyDonut | HoldMyDonut
NTA. OP is being financially responsible and reasonable.
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Create a repayment plan and pay on time, restore good faith 💰
PrairieDogStromboli | PrairieDogStromboli
Taking her money and not paying back. YTA. 😠
SpicyMustFlow | SpicyMustFlow
YTA. You're entitled to use your money as you please, but don't act like your girlfriend is greedy or unfair for wanting her money back after she helped you out in a time of need. 💰
R3dIsMyFav | R3dIsMyFav
Financial abuse alert! Keep track of all spending and RUN! 💥
Mikethunder27 | Mikethunder27
You agreed to pay her back and you are doing so. NTA 👍
LAKingsofMetal | LAKingsofMetal
NTA. Comment suggests fundamental incompatibility with GF's money management. 💸
Distinct-Confusion | Distinct-Confusion
Creative solutions for debt repayment without sacrificing all 'fun' activities. #NTA
NonaDiAngelo | NonaDiAngelo
NTA: Clear expectations and repayment plan should be laid out.
Thatisnotmyprobleman | Thatisnotmyprobleman
NTA. GF seems manipulative and guilt-trips you over debt. Take control.
clairoobscur2 | clairoobscur2
NTA for prioritizing emergency fund, but need to address relationship issues 👍
papabean05 | papabean05
NTA. GF mooches off you, yet demands full loan repayment? 🤔
Asriel-Chase | Asriel-Chase
NTA. Relationship with financial control issues. Keep emergency fund.
pendingsweet | pendingsweet
NTA defends enjoying his lottery winnings and questions girlfriend's motives.
pumakittycat | pumakittycat
Re-payment terms agreed upon, NTA. Money is yours 💰
Wader_Man | Wader_Man
Reader calls out financial and emotional abuse, advises rethinking relationship.
stellablue925 | stellablue925
NTA prioritizes personal finance, not greedy girlfriend. 💰
SeaTurtle90 | SeaTurtle90
Emergency fund and hobbies are important, NTA for not giving extra 💰
shortcurlywitch | shortcurlywitch
NTA. Keep paying back steadily and keep an emergency fund 💰
808_Lion | 808_Lion
Stop spending on her, pay off debt or dump her 💰
seba_make | seba_make
User calls out irresponsible behavior and greed. YTA.
Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze
Confusion around loan amount and conflicting accusations of greediness. ESH.
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Debtor defends reasonable payments and expenses, calls out unreasonable expectations. 💪
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NTA. Financial abuse is not acceptable in any relationship. 👍
j_ives | j_ives
NTA. Lending money to family/friends requires realistic expectations. 💰
AKJ1820 | AKJ1820
NTA. He's paying for everything, why should he give more?
UnsocialablySocial | UnsocialablySocial
Tips for settling financial disputes in a relationship 💰
DanAffid | DanAffid
Money issues can ruin relationships. ESH needs a rational discussion 🤔
Zafjaf | Zafjaf
Getting a loan from the bank vs your girlfriend 💰. NTA, lesson learned.
Mandajolene123 | Mandajolene123
NTA, grow a backbone and evaluate if this relationship's worth it 💪
iahawkeyehoncho | iahawkeyehoncho
Gender bias in judgement pointed out in financial abuse situation ⚖️
billybobhoe133 | billybobhoe133
A relationship built on loans and greed is bound to fail 😒
DrHob0 | DrHob0
NTA, respectez les termes et remboursez comme convenu. Ne réempruntez pas.
marigold2b | marigold2b
Reader requests more details for context in comment section.
marigold2b | marigold2b
Lesson learned: don't borrow money from family/SOs/friends! 👍
Pocket-or-Penny | Pocket-or-Penny
Both parties are at fault for not agreeing on terms. 🙅🤦♂️
hobalotit | hobalotit
NTA, but tell her to start paying her share 💰
Sunsolsun | Sunsolsun
NTA. Pay her back and dump her, she's taking advantage 💰
Arms1983 | Arms1983
NTA. The loan is being paid back quickly. Girlfriend is greedy 👍
ArcticSunset | ArcticSunset
Details missing, but most agree: NTA, man 👍
OliverCrowley | OliverCrowley
Splitting rent and bills may solve the problem. #NTA
2catsaretheminimum | 2catsaretheminimum
A fair question. Is food included in the loan agreement?
Abikdig | Abikdig
NTA, pay her off and never borrow again, keep winnings private 💰
EmeeBea | EmeeBea
Pay back the loan and subtract for gifts, communicate it 🤷♂️
KnightofForestsWild | KnightofForestsWild
GF forced a 'loan' upon him, increased it for expensive bed, and used it to pay for a trip with friends. NTA.
david_truffmen | david_truffmen
Concerned commenter questions OP's repayment plan for greedy girlfriend.
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NTA commenter supports OP against sister's unfairness. 💯
bigchirp67 | bigchirp67
NTA, reasonable to not give everything. Power dynamic issue.
jzbs | jzbs
Stick to the payment plan, NTA. Emergency money is important 👍
Ellendyra | Ellendyra
NTA but discuss budget and her contributing to living expenses 💰
munchkinmother | munchkinmother
Lending money to a loved one comes with risks but you do it because you care ❤️
Lady_Paks | Lady_Paks
Debt doesn't give control over someone's earnings. NTA 👍
dildobugginz | dildobugginz
Financial abuse? NTA for not paying for GF's expenses.
Inallea | Inallea
Partner demanding full debt payment despite already being paid in kind. NTA
goldenislandsenorita | goldenislandsenorita
Girlfriend isn't contributing financially and is using him. NTA 👏
NJ2CAthrowaway | NJ2CAthrowaway
NTA for wanting to pay back loan on your own terms 💰
lemlurker | lemlurker
Prioritize paying off debt like you would with a bank. NTA 👍
BrazenRaizen | BrazenRaizen
Don't let her gaslight you. Get a loan to pay back 💰
HeidiCat1993 | HeidiCat1993
NTA, GF loaned money to have control, not contribute.
Moegooner88 | Moegooner88
Uneven spending and repayment, ESH. Start splitting expenses and bills. 💰
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Debate over who's TA in a loan dispute 🤔
znhamz | znhamz
NAH, commenter wouldn't ask partner for money, but monthly payments made.
Dovahkiinkv1 | Dovahkiinkv1
Confusing math aside, paying off the debt should be priority 💰
michacu | michacu
Man borrows $3K from GF, wins $1.5K but gives her $200. YTA.
JadedSlayer | JadedSlayer
Financial abuse isn't love. Take your time, NTA 👍
bonebullet | bonebullet
Confused comment seeking clarification on unclear arrangement and expenses.
TigerUSF | TigerUSF
Set boundaries and split expenses with greedy girlfriend. 💰
sirlancelotgable | sirlancelotgable
OP is seeking advice on legal and moral grounds. NTA 👍
zerodyme87 | zerodyme87
